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Welcome to DivorceLawyer’s Learning Center, where you can get informed on all things divorce. From valuable resources covering the more personal aspects of the process—such as stages and emotions—to all kinds of legal information—including direct answers from attorneys—you’ll find everything you need to take control of your journey.

Common Questions

Here are some of the most commonly asked questions about divorce. Click on a question to get a quick answer and access more detailed information.

How do you tell your friends and family that you are getting divorced?
When you are ready to share your news, start by reaching out to trusted friends or family directly. Avoid posting divorce-related content on social media. If there are children involved, approach them with honesty and compassion.
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How much does a divorce cost?
The cost of your divorce will depend on your unique circumstances, including the assets that must be divided, any children who must be accommodated, and how contentious the situation is between you and your spouse. Simple, uncontested cases can be as little as a few hundred dollars, while complex, drawn-out cases can run much higher, with some couples spending more than $100,000 to dissolve their marriage.
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How do I tell my kids about divorce?
Talking to your children about a divorce can be difficult. They often won’t understand what’s happening or why. Explain to them that they are loved and that it’s not their fault. Be honest about how things will have to adjust due to temporary and long-term custody arrangements, but try not to scare them by overwhelming them with sudden life changes. Give them time to be sad or angry, but also make sure you leave the lines of communication open in case they want to express themselves.
How long does divorce typically take?
The divorce process can take as few as 31 days in most states, but it normally takes six to twelve months. If there are major differences that need to be worked out, be prepared for the process to take more than a year. The timeline can widely vary based on your circumstances, location, state laws, what is being contested, and how you and your spouse choose to handle the negotiations and proceedings. Consult an attorney for guidance on your unique circumstances.
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What will happen to our house and other assets?
During the divorce process, your home and other assets will most likely be divided. The approach will be guided by local and state laws, usually with the goal of creating fairness for all parties. Your division of assets might be based on a variety of factors, like the value of your property, history, lifestyle, infidelity, the needs of any children involved, or the earning potential of either individual.
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Stages of Divorce

To make it easier, sometimes it’s best to break down the divorce process into distinct stages. Click on a stage to explore articles and videos that can provide insight and support for your journey.

Disillusionment
“Something is not right. How did everything go so off track?”
Dissatisfaction
“It’s time to talk about the problem. It’s worth giving it one last shot.”
Decision
“It’s decided and there’s no going back now. The anxiety is sky-high.”
Action
“The lawyers are on it. Everyone needs to know, especially the kids.”
Acceptance
“Frankly, it had all been falling apart. It really was time to go separate ways.”
Freedom
“There’s a whole future ahead! This sense of freedom is unbeatable.”

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The Emotional Path Through Divorce

A divorce is a major life change, and it’s natural to experience a range of intense emotions along the way. Whether you’re thinking about divorce or already in the middle of it, we’re here to help navigate through it. Click on an emotion to explore and understand the feelings you may be experiencing.

Real Voices: Coffee Talk

A safe space where real people offer comfort and guidance by sharing their very real divorce stories. Whether contemplating divorce or starting your new life, Coffee Talk will remind you that you’re not alone.”

Legal jargon is overwhelming

Navigating through my divorce was daunting. The legal jargon felt overwhelming, adding to the stress of an already tough situation. It was empowering to know exactly what was happening and what to expect, which helped me Navigating through my divorce was daunting.
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legal jargon felt overwhelming, adding to the stress of an already tough situation. It was empowering to know exactly what was happening and what to expect, which helped me Navigating through my divorce was daunting. The legal jargon felt overwhelming, adding to the stress of an already tough situation. It was empowering to know exactly what was happening and what to expect, which helped me manage the emotional and practical aspects of my divorce better. Learn Moremanage the emotional and practical aspects of my divorce better. Learn More
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Carrie R.

Aventura, FL

I Wish I Had Taken Alimony

If I were talking to my younger self, I’d say: take the money, it’s yours.

Emilia M.

Chicago, IL

Gaslighting – trusting your instincts

Gaslighting is when an individual tries to manipulate another individual by making them doubt the truth and reality. Trust your instincts and reach out to an attorney. You know that attorney will have your best interest in mind, in their heart, in their job.

Tiffany G.

Atlanta, GA

Am I a failure because I’m getting divorced??

When I realized that things were not going to work, that the situation was not going to change, it was an awakening of sorts.

Jerri E.

Cummings, GA

Addiction – it was never the last time

20 years of my spouse's addiction… that’s how long it took me to say enough!

Joyce B.

Dallas, TX

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